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When the matter reaches the emo style, the first that is recollected is the emo appearance. This direction begins exactly with appearance, therefore to become emo, it is necessary to be engaged in your own image first of all.
How to be emo? It is not necessary to dress only in black clothes - so gloomy style is peculiar to goth, but emo prefers to dilute dark black colours with bright pink accessories. It concerns both emo girls and boys. But as an accessory should be meant only badges, brooches and another trifle - jeans (surely fitting!), T-shirts, belts and gym shoes can be only black. A bag or a backpack is exclusively black too, but you have to put a great number of different badges and labels, but they have to be just pink. No other colour, like red or green, will not be approached here. Besides, it is necessary to get gloves without fingers and accessories in a black-and-white cage, and also ornaments with skulls.
Having defined with clothes, it is time to get to know more about the make-up. The black make-up for eyes is obligatory for both emo girls and guys, but painting your nails in black or silvery is often done only by girls. Emo boys nevertheless can refuse to do that. Though, for more effective appearance, it is possible to get a varnish even for boys. And by the way, hair should be black too, and each haircut should be decorated with a dissymmetric bang. But the behavior is also very important! Emo style means permanent sufferings, thatís why itís necessary to become more sensitive - tears in the corners of the eyes are a decoration for emo kids.
And one more rather important thing to do is to read books. It is not necessary to love them, it will be enough even to carry couple of books in your emo bag everywhere with yourself. Your books should be shabby and should have impressive sizes. Emo likes reading in loneliness.
Itís very important to listen to the corresponding music - My Chemical Romance, Tokio Hotel, Garbage - all these groups should necessarily be in your black i-Pod. But you have to understand Ėthat all these things have no relation to the true style. The real emo have appeared still in the early eighties of the last century. This direction has appeared thanks to the pank band Fugazi which has become famous for writing sincere texts. Exactly from that time the name emo appeared Ė it original word is English word emotional. Therefore it is not absolutely correct to name children who are dressed up in black-pink true emo. They feel what is going on around them much better; they have more reverence attitude to people around them. They perceive al the emotions from the surrounding world. Emo guys and girls who are very anxious by their appearance can be more likely named poseurs.
However, if we are talking about love to the true emo style and also about appreciation of the †external black-pink appearance, it is possible to combine these two concepts and that is what a lot of people do nowadays. It is not obligatory to overact, walking everywhere up and down with huge books and cry about something that exists or even not exists. Moreover, it is not even necessary to suffer all the time. we are talking about just EMOTIONAL style which demands from person some sensitivity, understanding, compassion to close people, but in any case trying to die after each block of bad news.
If you want to know how to be emo, it is necessary to think over the following questions. Is everything in our world fair? Whether everyone is worth the money he has? Whether people take care of our smaller brothers? Whether I am happy? Just the interest of such world problems characterizes true emo who is disturbed by a state of all everything in the world and thinks of the place, he takes on in our world.
But it should not be forgotten that this style has appeared thanks to the music, and that is why it is necessary to pay special attention on it. Nowadays a lot of bands which present themselves as emo-bands, in practice often appear just the poseurs, simply maintaining this style. The Used, AFI, Fall Out Boy, 30 Seconds To Mars and Fugazi, which we have already named Ė are those groups which play true emo style. Their texts are always fair as much as possible, and they are always very emotional during performances.
But letís return to the behaviour of the person. Before becoming emo, you should decide strongly, whether the rules of this style can be combined with a usual way of your life. Whether the person is †happy, becoming the appreciator of this style. The excessive emotionality does not always put the smiles on the faces of other people. Emo style and image of their life sometimes can be deeply opposite to lots of people, so that sometimes want to show their opinion and their attitude to emo with the help of some rudeness. It is doubtful whether emo guys are very happy in such moments, they are even not sure they have chosen the right way. But not only emo boys suffer from hooligans, girls would be glad not to take part in such actions but, alas, the rudeness is not controlled by people. †In general, this style is rather controversial. On the one hand, the high emotionality makes us glad, but the fact that the majority of accessories of typical emo children is obviously taken from other styles, makes us upset. So, black has always been the colour of goth, badges and stripes were always held in high respect of †punks. And if you analyze emo appearance, you will understand that there is nothing original in this style, unless chronic depression.
Nowadays this style is chosen by a great number of teenagers, who are often hiding from their problems; what is typical for all children are misunderstanding and disagreement. The another matter of fact is that not everyone has †strength to understand these problems. It is much easier to paint hair in black colour, †to hide in a dark narrow place and to sit there grieving about your life position. Only the weak person chooses a way like this. And it is pity that nowadays such a great number of people are †not able to struggle, they can just cry and they are looking for the support but they actually donít want to do something themselves.
Because emo nowadays is understood, as people, who are too emotional and sensitive, deeply suffering, this style is very dangerous because the desire to feel pity about yourself develops in people all the time. Certainly, you should not forget about yourself, but in some situations it is necessary to understand that your situation is not the worst, that the surrounding people donít want to make you feel bad, after all each †person can make mistakes and even has the right to make them. The constant screen allows to hide your own lacks, while drawing an image of the rude world in which everyone wants to make you feel bad and brings only harm. Nobody says that people should meet each other with the embraces. But the person can influence a situation surrounding him. Only for this reason it is necessary to be opened to the world, it is impossible to become retreated into yourself as emo does. Therefore, before making sure you really want to become emo, itís better to think more, whether this image will help you to live and to survive in this world.